supergeeked asked: GET OFF TUMBLR AND STUDY BEN!
The matrix has me………
Anonymous asked: Is it okay to not be sexually attracted to people because they're really big? I can't work out if this makes me a bad person.
Perhaps not a bad person intentionally, but you are clearly privileged if you think you have the right to choose one body type over another. You are - without being aware of it - oppressing other body types by purposely going out of your way to not date and/or have sex with them. I know you’re probably not going to like what I’m saying, but it’s the truth.
I’m not saying that there is anything wrong with women who are skinny, but I do have to question the attraction the men claim to have. I believe many of these men are closet homosexuals, fatophobes, and in some cases; pedophiles. i say this because, there is no way on god’s green earth, that a sane grown-ass man would want anything to do with a woman who does not have hips, ass, or tits. It’s either you think she looks like a little girl, or you think she looks like a boy. Other times men are just so hateful and afraid of big beautiful women, that they will punish themselves before admitting that we are sexy. This is really no different than if I were to not have sex with a black man, because I “didn’t find him attractive.” That’s like saying “you don’t appeal to me because you aren’t human.” Do you know how racist that is, and wrong? It’s disgusting. By choosing one person over another, for whatever reason it may be, you are insulting the oppressed. Every time you walk around town with a thin woman, you are insulting fat women.
I think because you asked this, you are willing to change. You know that what you’re doing is wrong. I have some news for you though: We are here, we’re growing in numbers and in weight, and 10 years from now we will be the norm. Nobody except perverts, liars, and fetishists are going to want to be with skin and bones. I sincerely hope you find yourself before that happens.
She said dudes that don’t like fat girls are either gay or pedophiles
this is the stupidest thing i have ever read
LOL omg. Did this person really just try to say that you’re not a woman if you’re skin and bones?
As long as you identify as a woman. You are a woman. Regardless of your size, and curves (or lack thereof).
Heaven forbid people have a preference.
It doesn’t make them crazy. It’s just their mother fucking preference. Some people prefer girls who are tiny. Others prefer girls who are bigger. Some people don’t like huge boobs. Others love them.
Some like tiny butts others don’t.
Some people like their girls short as hell others like them to be tall af.
Who the fuck are you to try to shame someone for what they find aesthetically pleasing?
Oh my god. Tumblr is a horrible thing sometimes
Wtf? You do not have to be attracted to every body type. It’s called a preference for a reason. It’s all opinion. Some like fat, some like skinny, some like thin, some like thick. It doesn’t matter because in the end, YOU are the one that is doing whatever to which ever body type you choose. It’s not bad to have a preference. It’s bad to make fun of people that don’t fit your preference, but it is not bad to have a preference.
I think about turning off all the lights, putting on Minerva by Deftones on repeat, cranking that shit up to 11, and just lie there.